Fhanthom's Therapy

So many women walk around not knowing just how much they’re worth. So many women believe they need a man so they can feel some type of fulfillment, so many women. There is so much beauty in every woman that she doesn’t need to look for a man’s attention. The stars dont go out of their way to shine, they just do. Seen so many women completely degrade themselves just for a man to notice…. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU DON’T NEED THAT… JUST STAND THERE AND BE BEAUTIFUL, DONT FORCE IT !! “IF YOU KNOW YOU’RE WORTH, YOU CAN RULE THE WORLD”

my doctor asked me earlier if I was pregnant obviously I said no, then he turned around and said ‘well how do you know without a test?’

I was like I know because no one has stuck their penis in my vagina. 

but what if

Women want you to love them deeper. Deeper than you loved the last woman you were with, if you are to be with this one woman –then it has to be deeper or at least appear more meaningful this time round for you, and for her. You can’t skirt around your emotions, you have to abandon this reservoir of fear that you carry. You must lose the trepidation of falling for her, falling in love with her is but a single step from the whole of the dance that will be required to win her with complete confidence. Old rivers run deep, and take many hundreds of years to change, sometimes the old habits you persistently and stubbornly carry with you also run deep, but you do not have the luxury of the old river, you must make the decision to change. Change is good for the soul, good for growth, good if you want to be in love. If it is to be, if you want her as much as she wants you then change is a given fact that must be acted upon. Abandon all reservations, love with the whole of your being, allow yourself the freedom to be hurt, for getting hurt is also a sign of change, that something is working, that something is worth fighting for.